Let’s get something clear: TERFS have never been good to trans men.
TERFs have always held trans men hostage.
They accept trans men looking for safety and shelter in feminist spaces as long as those trans men are not too vocal and do not contradict TERFs in any way. The moment trans men speak their mind, support trans women, speak against misgendering or are in any way honest about who they are, TERFs are ready to bully trans men and excile trans men into a hostile world.
To TERFs a silent trans man is a nice tokens for their claim that they’re totally not transphobic. A vocal trans man is just another enemy.
So while it is 100% true that almost all TERF violence is directed at trans women and TERFs are a lot more dangerous to trans women in every way, it is a mistake to speak about TERF dominated spaces that ‘welcome’ trans men or ‘accept’ trans men. That is not welcoming, that is not acceptance. That is a hostage situation.
