terraform:

trans people wanting trans partners is perfectly valid and acceptable; cis people wanting trans partners specifically because they are trans is and always will be an act of fetishization and transphobia. cis people can reblog this

THIS THIS THIS. 

Also, cis people who are dating a partner who happens to be trans and who like everything about their trans partner need to be validated. 

We need to destroy the idea that there are only struggling cis partners who love a trans person despite their transness and fetishistic cis partners who want a trans person because of their transness. 

It is possible and in fact super common to just love a trans person, period. No despite or because.