Hey I’m sorry if u don’t want to answer this,, I’m an 18yo girl n there’s a 24yo who follows me and likes all of my photos of myself and some of my sexual posts and it makes me uncomfortable. Is it wrong that I feel weird? Cuz it’s not like she’s some 45yo and I’m 18 now

It’s not wrong that you feel weird. At all. 

When I say that people need to not make generalist statements about all age differences and act like an age difference is inherently abusive, I do not mean that you can not assert your boundaries based on the age differences you are uncomfortable with. That’s totally okay.

If a person makes you uncomfortable it also doesn’t matter whether she’s 45, 24, 18 or 14: she needs to stop. 

And you don’t need to justify the reason to anyone. It could be that you don’t like the age difference, it could be that you don’t like the way she talks to you, it could just be a bad vibe you get or that her username looks like the name of a person you dislike. It doesn’t matter. 

If a person makes you uncomfortable for whatever reason, you have the right to tell her to stop.and she needs to respect it. Always. No exceptions.    

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