intersectionalityisnecessity:

meowtini:

Not to start drama but its super toxic to categorize nonbinary people into male-aligned and female-aligned unless they choose to identify that way themselves as it is often used in context of “basically male” and “basically female” and reinforces the gender binary system

Down with the gender binary!

No ‘amab’ and ‘afab’ unless they describe themselves that way
No ‘transmasculine’ and ‘transfeminine’ unless they identify that way
No ‘transmasculine = afab’ bullshit and ‘transfeminine = amab’ bullshit.

Using binary terminology for non-binary people without their consent will never be anything but violent denial of our identities. If you don’t know how to talk about which ‘side’ of the gender spectrum you think we’re on, that’s your problem. We’re all over the fucking place and it’s none of your damn bussiness