If you’re making one of those posts where you call something ‘wholesome’ you need to recognize that you’re often calling something else ‘not wholesome’ in the progress.
I’m seeing quite a lot of posts that specifically focus on relationship-things being wholesome because they are non-sexual, and that sends a message about what you think sexuality is.
On a larger scale I think the lack of content that acknowledges sexuality in ‘wholesome’ tags and blogs is deliberate and it’s fucked up.