shit like this is why i believe in kink shaming. even though they believe her to be dead no body has been found so i pray Yingying Zhang is still alive.
“A forensic examination conducted on the same day revealed that Christensen visited a website called “FetLife” on his phone, going through a forum titled “Abduction 101” and its sub-threads “Perfect Abduction Fantasy” and “Planning a Kidnapping”. Fetlife describes itself as “the Social Network for the BDSM, Fetish & Kinky Community” according to The Chicago Tribune.”
That awkward moment when your fetish site isnt private, doesn’t exist in a vacuum, and can’t be defended by “your kink isnt my kink” philosophy because someone *actually got kidnapped and might *actually be in danger.
Also I remember how much shit MayMay and the rq blog got for callin Fetlife exactly what it is— a place for BDSMers and abusers to kiki while flying under their respectable radars (This is my PRIVATE life so it has nothing to do with that pesky “real world”)
Anyways this is gonna keep happening. And the people I blame are the passionate kinksters who pretend like there’s a clear line between abuse/violence and consent/pain. There isn’t.
Man Arrested for Kidnapping Chinese Scholar Researched Sex Fetish Sites Beforehand
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