Little advice from someone who has had a lot of shitty anons by now:
If you make a post and someone puts an anonymous message in your inbox going “I’m a homeless suicidal transgender woman or color with an eating disorder and ptsd and I’m a survival of sexual violence and here’s why I think you’re wrong and horrible”, delete their post.
Don’t reply, just delete the post and move on.
Most of the time your anon is none of those things and even if they are, they’re not trying to have a debate with you, they’re trying to make you publically look like a nasty person for disagreeing with someone with less power than you. It’s a trap. They’re on anon so they can claim to be anyone.
If you reply, there’s a very big chance some white cis middle class person with the same opinion ‘just happens’ to see your post right after you answer and ‘just happens’ to reblog it with a reply about what a terrible person you are and that post will just happen to get reblogged by all their friends and you will have hate in your inbox for months for having the audacity to disagree with that poor anon.
Save yourself the trouble, delete the anon post.
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