kirbylesbian:

99% of ppl who say gay bars are too sexualized have never been to a gay bar in their life and are just assuming so based on homophobic tv shows they watch

Like, gay bars come in every flavor from ‘porn on screens above the bar and a no shirt on dress code’ to ‘chill on sofas with some tea and a cat’. So people can, ya know, choose what they like.
And the ‘porn above the bar’ place isn’t TOO sexualized. For the people that choose to go to that place it is just as sexual as they like it.
Gay sxuality being, ya know, not a bad thing.