foundtheaphobe:

I really hate it when exclusionists say shit like “oh The Discourse™ is such hell… why can’t it just end already” when they’re literally the ones who started it in the first place and they could leave anytime they wish

Meanwhile, us simply existing becomes a debate we don’t have a choice partaking in. If you talk about being a-spec, all of a sudden you get hounded by people who think you shouldn’t feel pride in your identity.

And then they go off and complain about it being such a chore for them to do this, when they can choose not to at any time.

Like, there are aspects of inclusion that actually require time & effort, but not being a fucking arse to people who want to feel at home in the LGBT+ community isn’t one of them.

Exclusivists are a tiny group, passionately bullying people in the name of fighting an imagined danger, and then complaining about how exhausting it is to be the fucking worst.