The thing about ppl with complicated relationships to gender casually referring to themselves as lesbians for simplicity’s sake or otherwise is that … they have been there from the outset. Like you can’t gatekeep us we are already inside the gate. We have been inside the gate for decades and decades and decades. I’ve built a little hut out of several panels of gate and that’s where I live. The calls are coming from inside the house. Don’t clutch ur pearls too hard or u will ruin their resale value
