like, “x hurts people” and “people who think about x in any context literally at all aren’t necessarily inherently evil” aren’t mutually exclusive opinions to have
like, hell, you know that there are support groups for abusers? not people who’ve been abused, but the abusers themselves! because that’s a space that needs to exist when we’re promoting rehabilitation. victims should not have to be the ones organizing those spaces and making sure their abusers, or abusers in general, become better people—for a lot of people that’d be absolutely horrible—but the end goal is that they make amends for as much as they can, underlying issues are addressed, and they don’t hurt someone else.
