I write and reblog posts sometimes about all that is terrible in current white middle class cis straight male dominated
‘BDSM’ culture, which in my opinion is really the worst possible way you could organize kinky community spaces

and about my dreams about BETTER kinky spaces that are safe, that prioritize the needs of the most marganilized, that challenge beauty standards, gender roles, rape culture and all other oppressive systems.

And I wanted to warn all of you that if you EVER use one of those posts to go ‘welp, kinksters are rapists’ or ‘that’s what you get for liking piss’ or any other kink-negative and sex-negative shit: you are trash, I hate you, I might publically mock you and I will most definitely block your ass into the next dimension.

When I talk about creating better safer kink communities, I am taking steps towards building a good thing. If you come in with your anti-kink crap, you are coming in to destroy the thing that I am building. We are not and never will be on the same side. So fuck off.