Good wholesome: including plenty of hopeful, encouraging materials into your blogging, not trying to shock your followers into awareness, having place for lightheartedness and fun, having conversations based on good faith with those who are genuinely interested in what you have to say, practicing transformative justice, cheering each other up just because you can, working from the assumption that over-reactions come from pent-up pain and making room for someone’s pain to be expressed creates space for healing, perceiving anger as parts of your emotional repair system instead of as a ‘toxic’ thing to feel bad about, appreciating small victories, creating space for vulnerability.
Bad wholesome: spreading the idea that ‘wholesome’ means ‘no sex, no drugs, no adult topics’, pushing conservative social values under the guise of care.
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