Since people are still spreading bullshit about me, here is one more thing I want to throw on my blog and in the tags for people who want to know what’s really going on:

I have never said that lesbians who wear wedding dresses are hetero-normative, that is misquoted and taken hugely out of context.

I once tried to
say that a very strong focus by blogs/tumblrs/representation on only monogamous, white-wedding, middle
class bliss as the height of LGBT perfection was hetero-normative. Because LGBT
lives without weddings and without monogamy are just as worth celebrating.

I wasn’t prepared for a slander campaign against me to take that post out
of context so I didn’t measure every word carefully before I wrote it.