Why my genderqueer identity does not revolve around ‘they’ pronouns.

I never quite feel at home when non-binary individuals talk about the importance of ‘they’ pronouns and non-binary identity cards. Don’t get me wrong: I totally understand why it matters to them, but it doesn’t feel relevant to my genderqueer identity. You see, I don’t want to be seen as belonging in some a kind of ‘third box’, … Continue reading Why my genderqueer identity does not revolve around ‘they’ pronouns.

Whether people stay on Tumblr and facebook or not, I think we should be mindful of a shifting mentality not only in profit-run social media but also in all our own communities. I feel like over the last decade, what we consider ‘nsfw’ or ‘pornographic’ has shifted towards stricter rules. In online and offline radical queer … Continue reading

Inter-generational friendships and queer families

It makes me really sad when I see some people treat inter-generational friendships, especially queer inter-generational friendships, as inherently suspicious. Such friendships have an incredibly important place in the lives of many young people who have a less than perfect relationship to their parents, especially queer young people. If all the adults you know are … Continue reading Inter-generational friendships and queer families

Harm and the past

“People should be held accountable for things they did 40 years ago because some acts are irredeemable” Is a pretty common statement lately, particularly about abuse and assault, but I think it’s more a matter of “People should be held accountable for things they did 40 years ago because they have had 40 years to … Continue reading Harm and the past

The “don’t compare people to Hitler or call people nazis, it belittles the history” thing was meant for people who use the word ‘feminazi’ or call abortion ‘the baby holocaust’ or point out that ‘the nazis banned books’ when their favorite video game is cancelled. When a right wing politician undermines basic human rights, criminalizes … Continue reading

Bad Sex Positivity: The Trilogy

veerletakino: queeranarchism: veerletakino: queeranarchism: queeranarchism: Bad sex positivity as seen on my Tumblr dash (depending on what crowd you hang with you may have seen this develop differently): 2012: Consent is Sexy! Yes means Yes! Sex is Empowering! It’s all simple and fun! Just say yes and you’re good to go! Buy my feminist porn … Continue reading Bad Sex Positivity: The Trilogy

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