“switch” or as I like to call it: “we’re both subs so someone’s gotta dom”
Random info dump, sorry some of these posts are very dense and complex:
- How to have hot, kinky sex with other Submissives without inviting a Dom
- I think most people don’t like having power
- I want submissives to take more care of themselves
Because I’ve spend a while thinking ‘two subs’ was a failed relationship and it took me a while to realize that it’s totally the best kind of relationship.
Like, it’s playing with power without a person in the room who gets off on having the power to violate consent. What’s not to love?
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(Disclaimer: I have read, debated and blogged A LOT about BDSM. If you send me a BDSM 101 post about how it’s ‘totally not about violating consent’ I will info dump very hard. So how about cutting out me as the probably rude middle man and starting here: http://rolequeer.tumblr.com/resources/ )
