Honestly the way many treat christianity, especially, is exactly that. Think about it. If something goes wrong/you mess up, it’s because of your shortcomings. But if you do something well, you’re supposed to give the gratitude to god. You have to have blind faith, and asking for any sort of proof is frowned upon. So many times in my life, I’ve heard people say you should not call christianity a religion, but rather a relationship – but if it’s a relationship, it’s a pretty damn one sided and abusive one.
“He will make you suffer but he loves you!”
