There are people for whom talking about every microagression that happens is affirming and energizing and there are people for whom talking about every microagression is extremely exhaustive and self destructive.

It’s probably a good idea to adress that difference in your space (whether it’s a group of friends, activists or social community that gathers around a shared identity) or you will end up with a lot of unadressed frustration. 

Like “they always zone out when I talk about what happened to me, it’s so invalidating” on the one end and “I need to constantly put up an emotional shield in here to not be bombarded with the pain of it all” on the other end.